Sunday, April 05, 2015

Aspies are the most honest people

From my experience I do not take advantage of other living beings from my lies which that makes me think I am going to hurt them. Most able bodied people knows in reality Aspies are prones to social suicide and make lies. Well unfortunately you got this wrong.

Aspies are 'the' one of most honest group of people in the world. Why? Because that we do. We hate lying. We hate hurting our feelings. We don't like hurting other people feelings. So that answers your question? Personally, I try to make things 'right' or 'goes according to the plan' when come to social situations. In past tense, we share experiences of what exact has happened in equivalent to sharing our feelings at present tense. That is one of signs we are being honest.

There were so many experiences through friends I made over last few years including this year at UQ. I find some people are not proactive or assertive when come to realism. It may be their lack of organisation, creating influence on not believing in me. The conversations I spoken with many group of people are aligned to honesty and committment. My feelings are always hurt when people are pretending things to happen when comes to planning. For example: I be back, going to the restrooms, then ten minutes later he/she never bothered talking to me again. Aspies are smart when come to this kind of situation when the person or group of people are not being bothered again; sometimes capable to finish things too quickly because of the judgment in behaviour. This is because I observe this clearly when I see their confusing facial expressions and body language. I know that I am not a good reader non-verbally but I can see the negativity of people.

Many times I can't see what my behaviour makes people to act like that. I am honest (yes being honest) to this that I am actually do not know exactly what is happening. I understand that my hearing loss influences on this social environment. So, how I can tell when I did something wrong? Numerous times I always explained and asked people what I did is wrong. They never responded. That makes me feel uncomfortable by their behaviourial 'reaction'. They become stubborn and avoidance. When I observe people's avoidance, that is when I become ill and uncomfortable. I understood that I should walk away and say 'that is your problem or 'stuck up'. When you hear people say something about you in terms of those quotes, wonder how you feel about this? This is what I have experienced. People can't tell if I have serious mental problems or they may aware I have ASD but not fully understood? This is big question.

In many case studies I heard over the years of how able bodied people treat people with disabilities. In many third world and developing countries I observed disability discrimination. I have experienced this everyday only when come to social situations. Despite, this may be the case that why I am experiencing this frequently because I live in Australia. Many countries around the world knows we have racism and discrimination issues. But we are not alone.

In conclusion, Aspies are one of the most honest people in the world. We have feelings. Never underestimate us!

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